Recently, I wrote about how new beginnings/traditions can be a cool thing which scares most of us. At some level, we are all scared to get outside that little box in which we live. The unknown has always had such a powerful aura to it. Humans want to know but they don’t. I can think of several common situations in life where this applies. It all goes back to fear and wonder.
Last year, I wrote about Christmas being so different because the things we were thankful for had changed so much due to Katrina. This year was so different because life was all new. New house…errr new place to live in an old house, new job for my dad and the new choices in colleges. So much has changed in the past year for my family. By far, the most has changed for my parents and younger sister. The only thing my siblings and I really have to deal with at this point is how we can best make life easier on those three.
It was interesting watching everyone communicate under closer surroundings. Our former house was very open and spread out, so everyone is used to being able to go and do their own thing if necessary. The new place is much more close knit and intimate. It is a little like living on a reality TV series…I think. It’s just those little things we used to forget to be thankful for. For instance having friends over used to require just going to another part of the house and now it’s required to schedule a room a finding a way to discuss things at a reasonable volume so as not to disturb others. It’s going out with my friends in New Orleans and coming in late. Whereas I used to be able to enter the house and get to my room without disturbing anyone. This no longer exists. I have to put force behind the front door to open it so that makes noise; and then, walking up the stairs echoes through the whole house so I walk carefully trying to be considerate of those sleeping. It’s just plain interesting. The family is adapting well though, and I’m happy to see it.
My dad began has been hard at his new job for a month now. It’s been educational for me because I’ve grown up just watching him be the boss. Now, he reports to someone else; but I think it’s what he really was looking for because it offers him a way to continue working without having to be sole responsible person. He’s head of business development for an engineering firm. So basically, he has returned to the roots of what he loves and what he’s good at…engineering and networking. All he has to do is do what he loves and has no worries about other employees, etc.
Interestingly enough the biggest stress relief as a result of the new house is the yard. I’m sure everyone will relate to this on some level. I’m convinced that one of the sole reasons my parents decided to have 4 children is because they knew they would need help around the house! I remember growing up cleaning our yard on the weekend was an all day affair and my mom is anal about it…nothing was ever finished. The yard used to require coordination, walkie-talkies and motivation. Now, it just requires like 45 minutes and two people. Honestly, between my mom, dad, younger brother and I at times we found ourselves standing around looking for things to do because sometimes there just isn’t enough yard. I could see in everyone’s actions. Each of use was looking for something else that could have been done, but there was nothing. It’s kind of like that TV you have to move. Yeah, two people would be nice, but it’s just easier to move by yourself. I mentioned it and we all kind of laughed the situation. I think that’s going to be the biggest stress relief on my parents…the yard and upkeep has been reduced by about 92%.
Anyway, things are coming back into the city. I was really glad to spend time with my friends and family. I made the most of it and probably went out more in 10 days then I ever have in my life. My dad has a new job, my mom is experiencing relief for the first time in a while, my younger sister is about to graduate and entertaining scholarship offers, my younger brother is now academic All-American for LSU football, my older sister’s family is doing outstanding and looking beautiful and I’m doing what I love in Atlanta.
The city of New Orleans is coming back slowly but surely on so many fronts. The city has Fleur-de-lis fever. I guess things do happen for a reason…sometimes.